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Secrets To Approaching Women
by Joseph Matthews (aka Thundercat)
Knowing how to approach women is a vital skill every man needs to know, because approaching women is the first step in creating a relationship with the girl of your dreams…
The way you approach a girl can make or break the rest of your pickup. Here are some tips for approaching women that will help ensure your success!
Remember a situation where you were going to approach a girl, and before you could even get a single word out, she freaked out and simply rejected you?
Know this – getting shot down has little to do with what you were going to say or what your intentions were. It’s all about how you go about actually approaching your target. It’s important to do this right the first time, because it’s hard to recover when you make a mistake right off the bat.
The most important thing to remember when approaching women is to come off as NON-THREATENING and to not, under any circumstances, telegraph your interest in them too early.
This is known as “coming in under the radar.”
Understand: Most women have trained themselves to just REJECT men outright when they sense they are being picked up on.
Most men don’t realize how annoying it can be for women to constantly be approached by guys who run the gamut from big time loser to big time creep. Because of this, women just don’t want to deal with yet “another pick-up attempt.”
Approaching women can be both easy AND fun when you know how to do it RIGHT.
So what’s the right way to approach a woman?
First – YOU MUST ACT FAST.
Waiting too long before you approach a woman will give you a chance to talk yourself out of meeting her. You need to overcome your fear and approach quickly when the opportunity presents itself.
Another tip – know what to say BEFORE you approach a woman! Meeting women becomes so much easier when you don’t have to waste time thinking of what to say to her to start a conversation.
So having a good pick-up line in your hip pocket to use in these situations is probably a good idea.
But I’m not talking about the “Hey, nice shoes, want to have sex?” type line. The point is to be NON-THREATENING, remember?
A good pick up line is something that will start an innocent conversation with the girl you’re approaching. Examples of a good line would be to ask her opinion on something and then continue the conversation by asking more questions about her opinion.
When approaching a woman, it’s important that you approach her from an ANGLE. Most guys charge towards the girl they want to meet like they’re marching to war! Coming in at an angle is much less confrontational and will put the girl at ease on a subconscious level.
The simple fact is – great pick-ups can only occur when the girl you are talking to feels comfortable with you! That’s why you need to feel comfortable talking to the girl.
It’s natural to feel uncomfortable meeting attractive women, but remember – practice makes perfect! If you take the time to go out and practice meeting women, over time it will become easier and you’ll be more comfortable with doing it.
The sad fact is, you’re not going to get good at approaching women if all you do is sit around reading about it and studying it like a test. If you want to get good and have success, you actually have to go out and DO IT so you can build your experience level. (The good news – it gets easier the more you do it!)
If you’re worried about being rejected, just look at it as a game. The ONLY thing you’re doing is approaching women. You’re not asking her out, you’re not trying to get her into bed, your only goal is to carry on some type of conversation.
That’s all!
See how many girls you can talk to in one night, and keep trying to beat your score.
One last note – try and use a “time constraint” whenever you approach a woman. This is as easy as saying you can only talk for a minute before you have to run.
You want to do this because if she feels this approach is just a “momentary” distraction, and you’re not trying to “impose” yourself on her, she’ll be more willing to engage you in your approach.
The beauty of this is that if the conversation picks up and is going well, she’ll forget that you used a time constraint, and you can actually talk to her as long as you want. Using a good time constraint is just a way to make the approach easier in the beginning.
In the world of dating, it all boils down to a numbers game. The more women you meet, the better your chances of finding your soul mate.
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Hmmm… with all of the hub hub going around lately, does anyone think that this stuff still doesn’t apply?
Thoughts?
