The best thing about not being a self proclaimed “guru” is that I can tell you things about myself without feeling like I’ll lose sales… or that you’ll lose respect for me… … or whatever. And in saying that, I’m gonna put something out there that I still need to work on. I do it all the time. I wonder why I do it. And I think I have the answer. So, what’s my problem you may...

[Here's a post I wrote a year ago and I decided to bring it back to the front because I had someone send me an email about it...] There are a bunch of things that I have on my mind right now… so I think I’ll vent a little bit. First, let me ask you a question. Do you feel BAD about the fact that you’re on this blog (or any other blog, forum, whatever) trying to figure out this dating/seduction thing? Do you close your...

“Love can sometimes be magic. But magic can sometimes… just be an illusion.” – Javan Pain… loneliness… guilt… unworthiness… … these are some of the feelings that I had the last time I went through a breakup. I think we all do. So, I’m gonna switch gears a little bit today and talk about how to get your ex back. I have to confess, I’ve made my mistakes in life and Lord...

Not what you were expecting on this blog I know. But I promised the Hot Alpha Female that I’d answer a few questions for her. And… I figured we might be able to get a few other comments from other men as well to help alleviate some of the differences between men and women. Here was her first question? How important are a girls looks to a guy? My answer… It depends on what you mean by looks. Guys, in general are a lot like...

I used to love being single during the holiday season. Think about it… starting a few days from Thanksgiving… single women start to feel a little pressure. (Hell, even women in crappy relationships seem to feel some pressure… lol) More parties, family and friends asking the same ‘ole questions, you know what I’m saying. Single men get the same questions. Same pressures… Instead of thinking about how life...

Pressure. Stress. “I have to figure this out. I need to learn this stuff. If not, I’ll never get a girlfriend.” Sound familiar. I’ll be honest… this is something that I figured out a lot time ago. And you can take it or leave it… I used to go out all the time and talk to women at bars and clubs. Naturally, I was trying to be slick… buy a couple of drinks (for the wrong reasons)… and try to...