Check out this cool article from Carlos Xuma… although I swear it’s got to be written by a woman though… Attention all intelligent men, there is a crisis at hand – beautiful eligible women are being swept away by beasts masquerading as real men. Women are often attracted to “bad boys” because they are aggressively pursued by them. What women want is to be wooed and wowed by men. Unfortunately, too many...

(guest article by the author of the Dating Black Book himself… Carlos Xuma. My comments are in italics) I’m not a fan of “manipulation” or “head games” in relationships or the whole singles scene. (For those of you who’ve read the e-book, I explain how using strategies can be thought of as manipulative, but it really isn’t.) Oh, make sure to pick up this book… it’s a damn good...

Well, I think it’s about time that I write something that transcends everything that we talk about here at AEDS. And, since I’m finding that this blog is being read by just as many woman as men (which still blows my mind)… I’m quite sure that this is going to hit home with quite an number of people. Now, before I start, let me clarify something… THIS IS NOT MY AREA OF EXPERTISE. This is just based on what I...

Are you finding it to be tough to get started in a new venture? Are you working out enough or have you put it off completely? Are you afraid to walk up to a beautiful woman and start a conversation with her because you’re afraid of being rejected? Are you alone? As we’ve discussed in prior engagements, the mind only truly reacts to either intense pleasure or intense pain. Feeling one of these two emotions will get you to...

I was reading an interesting post by Captain Jack today about his Magnification Principle… and it’s a slick read. I’ve never met this guy… but I can say that this principle is true. Now, he gives an example of his ignore/magnify polarity with explaining most reactions to flaking and how he disagrees with the typical “taught” response to a woman flaking out on you… My response… I agree...

“You have to remember that her Slut Complex will be one of your biggest obstacles on the way to first having sex with her. This complex is only overcome by one thing: The level of her desire to sleep with you. To increase her desire, you increase her attraction for you and lower her level of mistrust she has towards men. At the same time, you always make sure that she is made to feel special and unique. If she senses that you do...