Aug

20

CX’s Rant About Bad Boys

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Check out this cool article from Carlos Xuma… although I swear it’s got to be written by a woman though…
Attention all intelligent men, there is a crisis at hand - beautiful eligible women are being swept away by beasts masquerading as real men. Women are often attracted to “bad boys” because they are aggressively pursued [...]

Dec

16

Keep Her Off Balance — Security Is For Wimps

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(guest article by the author of the Dating Black Book himself… Carlos Xuma. My comments are in italics)
I’m not a fan of “manipulation” or “head games” in relationships or the whole singles scene. (For those of you who’ve read the e-book, I explain how using strategies can be thought of as manipulative, but it [...]

Nov

7

An Open Callout To Anyone In An Abusive Relationship

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Well, I think it’s about time that I write something that transcends everything that we talk about here at AEDS.
And, since I’m finding that this blog is being read by just as many woman as men (which still blows my mind)… I’m quite sure that this is going to hit home with quite an number [...]

Sep

24

Breaking Away From Your Comfort Zone

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Are you finding it to be tough to get started in a new venture? Are you working out enough or have you put it off completely?
Are you afraid to walk up to a beautiful woman and start a conversation with her because you’re afraid of being rejected?
Are you alone?
As we’ve discussed in [...]

Sep

2

Flake Bait

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I was reading an interesting post by Captain Jack today about his Magnification Principle… and it’s a slick read.
I’ve never met this guy… but I can say that this principle is true.
Now, he gives an example of his ignore/magnify polarity with explaining most reactions to flaking and how he disagrees with the typical “taught” response [...]

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