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	<itunes:subtitle>Listen in as I interview some of the brightest minds in the world of dating, relationships, seduction, and higher achievement.  Subscribe today!</itunes:subtitle>
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		<title>B4 U TXT HER &#8211; The Race dePriest Interview</title>
		<link>http://www.angeleyesdevilsmile.com/blog/b4-u-txt-her-the-race-depriest-interview/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Apr 2010 20:13:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Brad</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The other day, I asked you to submit your questions about text messaging &#8211; because I was going to interview Race &#8220;Quick Thumbs&#8221; dePriest about his B4 U TXT HER system and how you can shortcut your learning curve and copy his text messaging prowess&#8230; &#8230; and you didn&#8217;t disappoint. We got some great questions [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The other day, I asked you to submit your questions about text messaging &#8211; because I was going to interview Race &#8220;Quick Thumbs&#8221; dePriest about his <strong>B4 U TXT HER</strong> system and how you can shortcut your learning curve and copy his text messaging prowess&#8230; </p>
<p>&#8230; and you didn&#8217;t disappoint.</p>
<p>We got some great questions in and Race dropped a few golden nuggets as well&#8230; apparently the guy just can&#8217;t help but give it all away&#8230; almost.</p>
<p>When you listen in, you&#8217;re going to discover:</p>
<p>- Race&#8217;s #1 frame of mind that he uses with <strong>ALL</strong> women, before he even says hello</p>
<p>- What to do when you get the dreaded <strong>&#8220;Who IS This&#8221;</strong> text</p>
<p>- How to transition from &#8220;text&#8221; to &#8220;sex&#8221; &#8211; without seeming like a dirtbag (and she&#8217;ll LOVE YOU for this one)</p>
<p>- Reconnection strategies for the one you let &#8220;get away&#8221;</p>
<p>There are a lot of tips and techniques in this interview.  I was impressed to say the least.</p>
<p>And, even if this isn&#8217;t your cup of tea, you should listen in <strong>ANYWAY</strong>.  There are some great overall tips as well, from approaching women to getting phone numbers in a fun, relaxed, never-fails way.</p>
<p>Interested?</p>
<p>I thought so&#8230; just hit play and let the fun times roll!</p>
<p>Stay cool,</p>
<p>Brad</p>
<p>p.s.  I just finished reviewing <a href="http://bhlinks.com/text">Race&#8217;s B4 U TXT HER</a> system and it&#8217;s money&#8230; so buy with confidence.</p>
<p></p>
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		<itunes:duration>0:53:17</itunes:duration>
		<itunes:subtitle>The other day, I asked you to submit your questions about text messaging &#8211; because I was going to interview Race &#8220;Quick Thumbs&#8221; dePriest about his B4 U TXT HER system and how you can shortcut your learning curve and copy his text m[...]</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>The other day, I asked you to submit your questions about text messaging &#8211; because I was going to interview Race &#8220;Quick Thumbs&#8221; dePriest about his B4 U TXT HER system and how you can shortcut your learning curve and copy his text messaging prowess&#8230; 
&#8230; and you didn&#8217;t disappoint.
We got some great questions in and Race dropped a few golden nuggets as well&#8230; apparently the guy just can&#8217;t help but give it all away&#8230; almost.
When you listen in, you&#8217;re going to discover:
- Race&#8217;s #1 frame of mind that he uses with ALL women, before he even says hello
- What to do when you get the dreaded &#8220;Who IS This&#8221; text
- How to transition from &#8220;text&#8221; to &#8220;sex&#8221; &#8211; without seeming like a dirtbag (and she&#8217;ll LOVE YOU for this one)
- Reconnection strategies for the one you let &#8220;get away&#8221;
There are a lot of tips and techniques in this interview.  I was impressed to say the least.
And, even if this isn&#8217;t your cup of tea, you should listen in ANYWAY.  There are some great overall tips as well, from approaching women to getting phone numbers in a fun, relaxed, never-fails way.
Interested?
I thought so&#8230; just hit play and let the fun times roll!
Stay cool,
Brad
p.s.  I just finished reviewing Race&#8217;s B4 U TXT HER system and it&#8217;s money&#8230; so buy with confidence.
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		<title>Are You A Text Messaging Bandit?</title>
		<link>http://www.angeleyesdevilsmile.com/blog/are-you-a-text-messaging-bandit/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Apr 2010 19:05:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Brad</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.angeleyesdevilsmile.com/blog/?p=460</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I used to not understand text messaging&#8230; I mean, why send someone a message when you can call them up, right? I fought it&#8230; for a LONG TIME. I definitely was a late adopter for sure&#8230; &#8230; but I&#8217;ve got to tell you. If you&#8217;re waiting for the text messaging &#8220;phase&#8221; to pass&#8230; DON&#8217;T. Look, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I used to not understand text messaging&#8230;</p>
<p>I mean, why send someone a message when you can call them up, right?</p>
<p>I fought it&#8230; for a <strong>LONG TIME</strong>.  I definitely was a late adopter for sure&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230; but I&#8217;ve got to tell you.  If you&#8217;re waiting for the text messaging &#8220;phase&#8221; to pass&#8230; <strong>DON&#8217;T</strong>.  </p>
<p>Look, text messaging is awesome for a bunch of reasons&#8230; <strong>but I&#8217;m going to give you my favorite 3.</strong></p>
<p><strong>1.</strong>  You can get to it when you want to get to it.  It shows up on your phone right then and you can check it and <strong>KNOW</strong> instantly what the other person wants.  No need to hassle over answering the phone to determine if something&#8217;s important or not.</p>
<p><strong>2.</strong>  Text messaging forces other people to generally be <strong>DIRECT</strong> and <strong>TO THE POINT</strong>&#8230; which is great.  I hate wasting time beating around the bush.</p>
<p><strong>3.</strong>  You can control the tempo <strong>AND</strong> most importantly, <strong>THINK</strong> about what you&#8217;re gonna say.  <strong>THIS IS HUGE!</strong>  If you put your foot on your mouth while texting, you either need to work on your text game&#8230; which we can get handledl&#8230; or you have fat thumbs&#8230; lol&#8230; and I can&#8217;t help you there.</p>
<p>If you want to know more about how to intrigue and connect with women through text messaging, then I&#8217;ve got a great treat for you.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m interviewing Race DePriest, the creator of the <a href="http://bhlinks.com/text">B4 U TXT HER</a> system and I&#8217;m going to extract some awesome info for you based on his text messaging prowess.  Now, I&#8217;m currently going through the program right now with a fine toothed comb&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230; but here&#8217;s what I need from you.</p>
<p>Tell us your most <strong>PRESSING</strong> questions about text messaging&#8230; no matter how crazy you think they are and I&#8217;ll ask Race when I interview him on Wednesday for the podcast, which will be available Friday morning.</p>
<p>Simply put your questions in the comments and I&#8217;ll ask him.  Also, I may even get him to come over here and answer them personally&#8230; we&#8217;ll have to see.</p>
<p>So get them in and we&#8217;ll get you handled.</p>
<p>B</p>
<p>p.s.  Race is the guy that hooked me up in Vegas if you remember from my last email&#8230; so he&#8217;s on my A list of people right now, even though we&#8217;ve never met in person  <img src='http://www.angeleyesdevilsmile.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Ageless Attraction with Adam Gilad</title>
		<link>http://www.angeleyesdevilsmile.com/blog/ageless-attraction-with-adam-gilad/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Apr 2010 21:03:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Brad</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Adam Gilad is a funny guy. He&#8217;s also a guy that agrees with me on the &#8220;Admiration&#8221; versus &#8220;attraction&#8221; principle&#8230; but enough about that. Let&#8217;s talk about what you&#8217;re gonna get out of this interview. In this High Gravity Male edition of the Adonis Lifestyle podcast, I talk with Adam Gilad about the challenges of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Adam Gilad</strong> is a funny guy.</p>
<p>He&#8217;s also a guy that agrees with me on the &#8220;Admiration&#8221; versus &#8220;attraction&#8221; principle&#8230; but enough about that.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s talk about what you&#8217;re gonna get out of this interview.</p>
<p>In this High Gravity Male edition of the Adonis Lifestyle podcast, I talk with Adam Gilad about the challenges of dating when you get to be over 30 years of age.</p>
<p>However, if you go through this interview with a fine toothed comb, you&#8217;ll happily discover that it actually gets <strong>EASIER</strong> as you get older, not harder &#8211; especially if you&#8217;re living and paying attention to the principles that Adam talks about.</p>
<p>No matter how old you are, and no matter if you&#8217;re single, divorced, have a girlfriend, or have 3-somes on the regular&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230; you <strong>WILL</strong> get a lot of great takeaway knowledge from today&#8217;s podcast, guaranteed.</p>
<p>B</p>
<p>p.s.  If you&#8217;re interested in <a href="http://bhlinks.com/ageless">checking out Adam&#8217;s new &#8220;Ageless Attraction&#8221; program, just go here</a>.</p>
<p></p>
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		<itunes:duration>0:45:11</itunes:duration>
		<itunes:subtitle>Adam Gilad is a funny guy.
He&#8217;s also a guy that agrees with me on the &#8220;Admiration&#8221; versus &#8220;attraction&#8221; principle&#8230; but enough about that.
Let&#8217;s talk about what you&#8217;re gonna get out of this interview.
In[...]</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Adam Gilad is a funny guy.
He&#8217;s also a guy that agrees with me on the &#8220;Admiration&#8221; versus &#8220;attraction&#8221; principle&#8230; but enough about that.
Let&#8217;s talk about what you&#8217;re gonna get out of this interview.
In this High Gravity Male edition of the Adonis Lifestyle podcast, I talk with Adam Gilad about the challenges of dating when you get to be over 30 years of age.
However, if you go through this interview with a fine toothed comb, you&#8217;ll happily discover that it actually gets EASIER as you get older, not harder &#8211; especially if you&#8217;re living and paying attention to the principles that Adam talks about.
No matter how old you are, and no matter if you&#8217;re single, divorced, have a girlfriend, or have 3-somes on the regular&#8230;
&#8230; you WILL get a lot of great takeaway knowledge from today&#8217;s podcast, guaranteed.
B
p.s.  If you&#8217;re interested in checking out Adam&#8217;s new &#8220;Ageless Attraction&#8221; program, just go here.
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		<title>Quit Thinking In Terms Of &#8220;Attraction&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://www.angeleyesdevilsmile.com/blog/quit-thinking-in-terms-of-attraction/</link>
		<comments>http://www.angeleyesdevilsmile.com/blog/quit-thinking-in-terms-of-attraction/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Apr 2010 19:17:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Brad</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.angeleyesdevilsmile.com/blog/?p=443</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[There&#8217;s something I want you to do. And, if you do this one thing, I promise you that you&#8217;ll have more fruitful relationships, sex, and OPTIONS (if you need them). What&#8217;s that one thing? It&#8217;s simple. Quit thinking in terms of &#8220;attraction&#8221; and instead&#8230; start thinking in terms of &#8220;admiration&#8221; This one shift will make [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There&#8217;s something I want you to do.</p>
<p>And, if you do this one thing, I promise you that you&#8217;ll have more fruitful relationships, sex, and <strong>OPTIONS</strong> (if you need them).</p>
<p>What&#8217;s that one thing?</p>
<p>It&#8217;s simple.</p>
<blockquote><p>Quit thinking in terms of &#8220;attraction&#8221; and instead&#8230; start thinking in terms of &#8220;admiration&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>This one shift will make a <strong>HUGE</strong> difference in your life&#8230; and, if you become admired, naturally, attraction comes along for the ride.</p>
<p><strong>Want proof?</strong></p>
<p>Okay.</p>
<p>Do you know one of the major reasons that men cheat on their wives with women from work?</p>
<p>BING, BING, BING!</p>
<p>It&#8217;s because the woman at work sees him in action and admires what he does.  <strong>AND</strong>, because he <strong>FEELS</strong> admired (and believe me, admiration feels a <strong>LOT</strong> better than just attraction), he gives in to the feeling (likely because his wife at home has stopped admiring him long ago).</p>
<p>It&#8217;s kind of a 2 way street.  </p>
<p>So think about that for a bit.  Let that rumble around in your noggin&#8217;.  Remember, this is big boy game we&#8217;re talking about.  <img src='http://www.angeleyesdevilsmile.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>The Question:  Is what you&#8217;re doing today fostering admiration?</p>
<p>B</p>
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		<title>Bill Preston Interview &#8211; The Vibe</title>
		<link>http://www.angeleyesdevilsmile.com/blog/bill-preston-interview-the-vibe/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Apr 2010 14:14:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Brad</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.angeleyesdevilsmile.com/blog/?p=433</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[In today&#8217;s edition of the Adonis Lifestyle: High Gravity Male Podcast, I talk to Bill Preston of The Vibe Now, I met Bill when I was in Austin a few weeks back and along with Christian Hudson, did some of the coolest and funnest stuff I&#8217;ve seen around women including TRYING to get blown off&#8230; [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In today&#8217;s edition of the Adonis Lifestyle:  High Gravity Male Podcast, I talk to <a href="http://bhlinks.com/vibe">Bill Preston of The Vibe</a></p>
<p>Now, I met Bill when I was in Austin a few weeks back and along with Christian Hudson, did some of the coolest and funnest stuff I&#8217;ve seen around women including TRYING to get blown off&#8230; that was classic.</p>
<p>In this interview, Bill&#8217;s gonna reveal:</p>
<p>- A cool &#8220;Do I Know You&#8221; look that engages women on a subconscious level and efficiently &#8220;breaks the ice&#8221; without saying a word.<br />
- A fun game you can play as a conversation starter<br />
- Why guys don&#8217;t really have &#8220;approach anxiety&#8221;, but THIS instead</p>
<p>Plus a lot more.</p>
<p>This is a fun conversation and you&#8217;ll get to hear both Bill and I&#8217;s BEST outlooks and positioning for yourself.  You should be able to take away a lot from this and plug these ideas and tactics into your life&#8230;</p>
<p>TODAY.</p>
<p>If you like the way Bill handles himself, <a href="http://bhlinks.com/vibe">you can check him here&#8230; it&#8217;s good stuff</a>.</p>
<p></p>
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		<itunes:duration>1:03:22</itunes:duration>
		<itunes:subtitle>In today&#8217;s edition of the Adonis Lifestyle:  High Gravity Male Podcast, I talk to Bill Preston of The Vibe
Now, I met Bill when I was in Austin a few weeks back and along with Christian Hudson, did some of the coolest and funnest stuff I[...]</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>In today&#8217;s edition of the Adonis Lifestyle:  High Gravity Male Podcast, I talk to Bill Preston of The Vibe
Now, I met Bill when I was in Austin a few weeks back and along with Christian Hudson, did some of the coolest and funnest stuff I&#8217;ve seen around women including TRYING to get blown off&#8230; that was classic.
In this interview, Bill&#8217;s gonna reveal:
- A cool &#8220;Do I Know You&#8221; look that engages women on a subconscious level and efficiently &#8220;breaks the ice&#8221; without saying a word.
- A fun game you can play as a conversation starter
- Why guys don&#8217;t really have &#8220;approach anxiety&#8221;, but THIS instead
Plus a lot more.
This is a fun conversation and you&#8217;ll get to hear both Bill and I&#8217;s BEST outlooks and positioning for yourself.  You should be able to take away a lot from this and plug these ideas and tactics into your life&#8230;
TODAY.
If you like the way Bill handles himself, you can check him here&#8230; it&#8217;s good stuff.
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		<title>Pick Up or Pick OUT?</title>
		<link>http://www.angeleyesdevilsmile.com/blog/pick-up-or-pick-out/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Apr 2010 22:33:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Brad</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.angeleyesdevilsmile.com/blog/?p=417</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[(Pilon and I mingling with cool people at the pool&#8230; and yes, our women were laughing and the ones taking the pics&#8230; lol) On Monday&#8230; we discussed a little about &#8220;saying yes to yourself&#8221; and giving yourself permission to actually do things (like ask a woman out)&#8230; &#8230; and, I actually discussed this same topic [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>(Pilon and I mingling with cool people at the pool&#8230; and yes, our women were laughing and the ones taking the pics&#8230; lol)</p>
<p>On Monday&#8230; we discussed a little about &#8220;saying yes to yourself&#8221; and giving yourself permission to actually do things (like ask a woman out)&#8230; </p>
<p>&#8230; and, I actually discussed this same topic for a bit with <a href="http://bhlinks.com/vibe">Bill Preston of &#8220;The Vibe&#8221;</a> in Friday&#8217;s upcoming podcast.</p>
<p>But here&#8217;s something that I never really hear anyone consider, and I got the notion for it from Mike in a comment for Monday saying:</p>
<blockquote><p>My biggest sticking point is I don’t believe in myself, or give myself enough credit.</p></blockquote>
<p>I see this a lot.</p>
<p>And in fact, in thinking about the solution to this problem, let me pose something to you.</p>
<p><strong>A LOT</strong> of the dating, seduction, and relationship material that&#8217;s being preached almost always focuses on you being the BEST at controlling any particular interaction.  For example, you walk into a bar&#8230; you should be able to get ANY woman to come home with you.</p>
<p>This is the <strong>FOCUS</strong> &#8211; the ability to bat 100% on any given night.</p>
<p>The Problem?</p>
<p>It totally takes away a lot of the <strong>NATURAL</strong> part of finding someone.  </p>
<p>In other words, the part where <strong>YOU DECIDE</strong> if a person is right for you or not.</p>
<p>Look, if you&#8217;re on our <a href="http://www.adoniseffect.com">Adonis newsletter</a>, you&#8217;d know that I talk about being <strong>COMPETENT</strong> and <strong>CONSISTENT</strong> versus &#8220;perfect&#8221; any day.</p>
<p>And I&#8217;m here to tell you, it applies in this situation as well.  It&#8217;s <strong>OKAY</strong> to be <strong>GOOD ENOUGH</strong> at this.  You don&#8217;t need the 100% batting average (although if you relax, give fun, and live &#8220;high gravity&#8221;&#8230; your batting average naturally skyrockets.)</p>
<p>So check this out.</p>
<p>On the way to the office this morning, I was listening in to some celebrity gossip and yes, although its not my brightest moment, it did make me think about something.</p>
<p><strong>YOU CAN LOSE EVERYTHING YOU&#8217;VE EVER WORKED FOR IF YOU CHOOSE THE WRONG WOMEN IN YOUR LIFE!</strong></p>
<p>&#8230; and it doesn&#8217;t even have to be money.</p>
<p>Self respect.</p>
<p>Friends.</p>
<p>Family.</p>
<p>Listen, part of this whole game is getting out of your head about being &#8220;good enough&#8221; <strong>ESPECIALLY</strong> when good enough means you&#8217;re surrounding yourself with the wrong women.</p>
<p>The wrong women will make you have an extreme dislike and disrespect of <strong>ALL</strong> women&#8230; trust me&#8230; been there.</p>
<p>Being able to sleep with needy women, that are married, or have boyfriends&#8230; isn&#8217;t a <strong>SKILL</strong>.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s just a matter of letting them take advantage of you.</p>
<p>So when you&#8217;re out telling your friends that you&#8217;re &#8220;the man&#8221; because you slept with a married chick&#8230; just realize you just got used for your pecker, and that <strong>BEST</strong> case, it required you just showing her a <strong>LITTLE</strong> more attention than her husband does.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s not <strong>GAME</strong>&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230; that&#8217;s being in the right place at the right time.</p>
<p>And as far as having &#8220;approach anxiety&#8221;&#8230; we cover this in Friday&#8217;s podcast, but let me leave you some things to think about.</p>
<p>Stable women, and I don&#8217;t care if they&#8217;re single, double, married, have boyfriends, girls night&#8230; whatever&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230; <strong>NO stable woman will ever refuse to meet a cool guy.</strong></p>
<p>Food for thought.</p>
<p>B</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[I noticed something this weekend while we in Vegas at the pool. (we being Barban, Pilon, and myself plus sig others) There are a LOT of people waiting for life to spontaneously happen for them. It&#8217;s like no one wants to take a bit of a risk and LEAD. A good example is the fact [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I noticed something this weekend while we in Vegas at the pool.  (we being Barban, Pilon, and myself plus sig others)</p>
<p>There are a <strong>LOT</strong> of people waiting for life to spontaneously happen for them.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s like no one wants to take a bit of a risk and <strong>LEAD</strong>.</p>
<p>A good example is the fact that Pilon and I were hanging at the pool, talking to everyone and really just galvanizing everyone into a really big group.  (Which sounds about normal to me).  But, even though it&#8217;s Vegas, you could see that both guys and girls really needed to be lead into having a <strong>REALLY</strong> good time.</p>
<p>I mean, we couldn&#8217;t really give people permission to have fun&#8230; you know?</p>
<p>So lets have some fun as I wake this blog back up.</p>
<p>Tell me what your biggest sticking points are and let me know how I can help you out.  I&#8217;ve got 2 new reports coming out for you and I really want to get this nailed for you.  Also, I need to know who you want on the new podcast as well.  Naturally, I&#8217;ve got my favorites and I&#8217;m interviewing <a href="http://bhlinks.com/vibe">Bill Preston of The Vibe</a> this week&#8230; </p>
<p>Let me know what you need and I&#8217;ll hook you up.</p>
<p>Brad</p>
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