(as part of the Dating Black Book expose, today I’ve included an article from the man himself, Carlos Xuma… check out my comments afterward.) TAKING THE UPPER HAND I want to talk to you for a minute on a topic that I’ve recently had the joy of researching first-hand. This goes into the topic of posture (which many of you are familiar with in the e-book) and I hope this demonstrates what I mean by turning the tables on a...

Here is a pretty cool video from Carlos Xuma, the author of the Dating Black Book… It starts out talking about speed dating but then just starts to go over a lot of the basics for success in the dating game. For more great information on keeping her off balance… and winning the war, check out Carlos Xuma’s Dating Black Book. With over 400 pages of “written smoke”, this manuscript is a MUST READ for all...

“Take no advice from anyone that isn’t doing the things that you want to do… or living the life you want to lead” – from the Dating Black Book Amen, brother. I can’t tell you how many people take poor advice… be it about losing weight, money, sex, love, relationships, work… from people that aren’t even there themselves… Like the financial planner that just got out of college…...

“The goal of your conversation with a woman is to increase her feelings of attraction to you, not kill them, while giving you an opportunity to learn about her. There’s no better way of accomplishing both than by using Intrigue Questions. These are questions that get her in touch with her positive feelings, and help associate them with you.” – from the Dating Black Book I had a woman ask me a question when I was...

“Fear is perfectly normal, as is a small bit of suspicion. The key to unlock their limiting and inhibiting effect is to act in spite of them. Fearful? Do something anyway. Suspicious? Give without expecting to receive. Do the thing that your fear and suspicion would stop you from doing and YOU WIN. Remember this: Most men’s failures with women can be tracked back to needing something from them TOO MUCH” – from...

“When you only date a few women, as most men do, you fall prey to misconceptions and bitter, downward spirals of attitude, which crimp your ability to meet more women. When you meet and date many women, you have the ability to learn about what does and does not work, find those traits that you desire, versus those that drive you insane – to take control of your dating experience, rather than it taking control of...