There’s something I want you to do. And, if you do this one thing, I promise you that you’ll have more fruitful relationships, sex, and OPTIONS (if you need them). What’s that one thing? It’s simple. Quit thinking in terms of “attraction” and instead… start thinking in terms of “admiration” This one shift will make a HUGE difference in your life… and, if you become admired,...

(Pilon and I mingling with cool people at the pool… and yes, our women were laughing and the ones taking the pics… lol) On Monday… we discussed a little about “saying yes to yourself” and giving yourself permission to actually do things (like ask a woman out)… … and, I actually discussed this same topic for a bit with Bill Preston of “The Vibe” in Friday’s upcoming podcast. But...

You know, I’ve been thinking about something for a little while now and since the last post… it’s been on the top of my mind so I want to get this out in the open before I expand on the whole “just meet people to meet people” scenario. One of the things that gets under my skin is when people (gurus, teachers, whatever) try to tell you what to do about your situation… … WHEN THEY DON’T EVEN...

The best thing about not being a self proclaimed “guru” is that I can tell you things about myself without feeling like I’ll lose sales… or that you’ll lose respect for me… … or whatever. And in saying that, I’m gonna put something out there that I still need to work on. I do it all the time. I wonder why I do it. And I think I have the answer. So, what’s my problem you may...

Here’s a mind game for you. Sometimes, people say “no” just to see how you’ll react… with the FULL intention of saying YES if you act congruent to what you portray. (Naturally, this isn’t the ONLY reason people say “no”… but it IS one reason) Picture this: You’re the smooth talking confident man who’s just laid out a helluva fun time in front of a woman that you’ve just...

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