Basic law of human nature… people tend to not make decisions until they have to.
People love to procrastinate…
… even when we are talking about seduction and dating.
Of course, even though you master lots of “tricks” and techniques that may enable you to interact with women on a deeper level… using a “takeaway” can help spice things up.
Use this technique to help you:
- Get more phone numbers
- Secure more email addresses
- Grab more kisses
- “Seal the deal”
- Have her come over, when YOU WANT
In fact, creating urgency using a “takeaway” is one of the most useful and versatile techniques you can use… master it and you’ve made yourself a serious force to be reckoned with… in any endeavour…
Some people might consider this a variation of the “push-pull” technique that you may hear people talking about on seduction forums or in most seduction manuals.
Here’s an example with phone numbers:
After talking for a short time… and I mean short… just come out and say:
I need to run… and I’d like to continue this conversation over coffee on Monday or Tuesday… (then use any variation of getting her number… I like getting her phone and calling myself)
If you are even halfway interesting… she’ll give it to you… and… if you’re smart, you’ll go ahead and secure a time and place RIGHT THEN. (Don’t EVER call to set up a first date… only call to CONFIRM plans)
Here’s one you can use to escalate to a “heavier” physical state…
Once you’ve pushed at a few emotional buttons and have started kissing… just try to leave. Have a creative reason that isn’t too important (For example, don’t say that you have court) and she’ll bring you back in… and now she’s CHASING YOU, ha, ha.
I like going out of town a lot… travel is lots of fun… and it also creates a great sense of urgency as well. If you’re in town… tell someone that you’d like to get together before you leave… if you’re out of town… tell someone that you’d like to get together before you leave…
If you’re leaving, there is a natural sense of urgency to “speed” things up.
Try to think of other ways to use urgency in your love life. After all, you see it everywhere…
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