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“In my experience, the most successful people are those that can take an honest inventory of their life, reflect on this inventory, and make the necessary changes NOW!”
– from my own head
I want you to take a long, hard, look at your life right now. Are there things that you want to change? Do you want to get better at women, make more money, look better, etc…
‘So what do we do? Anything. Something. So long as we just don’t sit there. If we screw it up, start over. Try something else. If we wait until we’ve satisfied all the uncertainties, it may be too late. ‘ -Lee Iacocca
Stop sitting around doing nothing. Look, laziness is an ACTIVE DECISION… you are ACTIVELY CHOOSING to do nothing.
You aren’t just “waiting around” or “researching” or whatever…
You’re ACTIVELY choosing to fail… point blank.
If you learn something here… on this site… or any other place in the community… put it to use TODAY!
Why wait around?
Do you know what’s sad?
There are countless numbers of people in the world that you can catch reflecting on their past… saying things like… “well, if I only would have applied myself… I could have been (whatever)” or “I wish I had taken (whatever) seriously, just think of where I could be right now”.
“It’s better to regret the things that you HAVE DONE… than regret the things that you HAVEN’T DONE”
– from the Dating Black Book
Always remember, courage is doing something even though you are AFRAID of what it is that you are doing.
I’ve said it before… you can’t be afraid of life… change happens everyday. Successful people embrace change… even create it… while unsuccessful people loath it… and even cower away from it.
‘Boys, there ain’t no free lunches in this country. And don’t go spending your whole life commiserating that you got the raw deals. You’ve got to say, “I think that if I keep working at this and want it bad enough I can have it.” It’s called perseverance.’ -Lee Iacocca
Are you going to give up?
Did you know that every failure is just one step closer to success?
Here’s another great quote:
‘In the long run, men hit only what they aim at. Therefore, they had better aim at something high.’ -Henry David Thoreau
Never settle in life… with women… or anything.
You’re better than that… and you’ve always known it.
But maybe you’re struggling a bit… maybe things just aren’t clicking for you… maybe you’re getting shut down left and right by every single woman that you meet…
… or even worse… you’re getting OWNED by the one that you’re with.
“Always remember that striving and struggle precede success, even in the dictionary.†– Sarah Ban Breathnach
I think one of the things that may help you as well is the Law of Detachment. Basically, this says that in order to get whatever you want, you must be willing to let it go.
You don’t give up the intention, and you don’t give up the desire… you give up your attachment to a specific result.
This is a very powerful thing to do because it lets you see the world of possibilities in front of you…
Remember, attachment is based on FEAR and INSECURITY…
You, as a person, are stronger than any one job, person, or situation. Your life is not defined by who you’re with, or the money you make, or even what you do in a superficial type of way.
Your life is truly defined by the VALUE you bring to other people.
Think about this for a moment.
Think about what type of value you bring to people, your mom, your dad, your friends…
Remember this: people only want to be around you based on a selfish reason… that you provide some type of VALUE to them.
(I talk about this at great length in “Explode Your Influence”
Quit focusing on your failures… they’re just RESULTS… nothing more… nothing less. It’s just feedback.
You live… you learn… you live more.
And then you dominate… it’s just that simple.
For more great information on the changes that men go through when it comes to women, and how to overcome them, check out Carlos Xuma’s Dating Black Book. With over 400 pages of “written smoke”, this manuscript is a MUST READ for all men… from the beginner… to the seasoned vet.
And don’t forget, reply to my email address (angeleyes.at.angeleyesdevilsmile.com) with a copy of your receipt… and I’ll send you the Dating Black Book mind map that I’ve created… my “Secret To Lasting Change”… and a copy of my special social proof report, “Explode Your Influence”…
Take the road less traveled.
More on the Dating Black Book expose around 12pm EST tomorrow.
