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“Wait as long as you can before directly stimulating her.
… the definition of foreplay is not touching where she knows you want to touch and where she eventually wants you to touch. Foreplay is just one big tease. Have fun with it. Remember: Barry Bonds doesn’t have to run fast because he knows he’s hit a home run. Think about it.
– from the Dating Black Book
This is going to be an interesting post to say the least… with quotes and links to a few different resources… so pay attention.
I have the opportunity to talk to different woman all of the time… and let me tell you… women talk about sex just as much… IF NOT MORE than men do.
And apparently, most women aren’t too satisfied with either:
1. The lack of sex that they are getting or
2. The lack of fulfillment in the sex that they ARE getting
Do you want me to tell you my secret for dynamite sex… the kind that either gets her telling all of her friends… or none of them because she doesn’t want the word to get out about how knock out it is?
Okay, but let me digress first.
Let me tell you a little story about an ex of mine that I just recently talked to… after not speaking at all for roughly two months.
Anyway, she gives me a call and we end up chatting for a while over at her place by the pool.
She straight up asked me… or should I say “baited” me…
“So, do you even miss me at all?”
I laughed and shot her a wicked smile… “You know, I do miss our FRIENDSHIP”… (which wasn’t what she was expecting, of course).
“Why do you ask?”, I quizzed her.
“I was just curious,” she answered… obviously a little disappointed in my answer.
I laughed again and said, “What, do you not miss our FRIENDSHIP?”
“No, it’s not that… I JUST REALLY MISS THE SEX.”
… which I already knew… notice… I did say she baited me.
And it’s funny… because… she was ranting and raving about how things were with the new guy she’s been dating…
Her reply to my probing of “I thought things were good like that between you guys”:
“It is… but it’s just not the same…”
And, of course, I stopped the direction of the conversation there and changed the subject. I knew where it could possibly lead and I really didn’t want to be in that situation.
I bring up this conversation because I want to illustrate one point:
If you’re good in the sack… women will think about you often… even when they really shouldn’t be.
I have to confess, I don’t feel like Ron Jeremy… or anything like that. In fact, I often employ the whole “two inch killer” routine to get women laughing and spark curiosity.
(If you’ve read my post on Using “Obvious Lies” To Create A Challenge, you’ll know that I LOVE talking about how small my pecker is in a fun, humorous-but-you-never-know way. I figured out a while ago that women don’t really believe much of what comes out of your mouth when it comes to either money or dick size so I reasoned that she might as well BELIEVE the way that I want her to believe. Plus, she HAS to satisfy her curiosity at that point…
Plus, I pulled this out on a stripper about 4 years ago and she straight up looked at me and said, “Dude, shut up… every guy that I’ve met that’s said something about how small they are… are usually freakin’ huge… so kill the small dick talk”
‘Nuff said. That’s going into my conversation with every woman… lol.)
Do you know the secret?
Here it comes…
JUST PAY ATTENTION.
Look, it’s not all about taking some chick back to the house and jackhammering the shit out of her… which… according to most of the women I’ve talked to… leaves them totally unfulfilled.
Every woman is different. The things that worked on your ex might work with the new girl… or they might not.
It’s Columbus time… so get to exploring.
My whole goal is for her to look at me afterward and go “What in the hell did you just do to me?”
JUST PAY ATTENTION.
Take your time… try different things.
Most women claim that most men have no IDEA what they are doing when they are going down on them… NO IDEA.
JUST PAY ATTENTION.
If you start doing something and she squirms (in a good way)… make a mental note and come back to it later.
And for heavens sake… don’t let your ego get in the way on this one. Set it on the nightstand.
JUST PAY ATTENTION.
Explore. Touch. Tease. Observe.
And if you can’t figure it out… JUST MAN UP AND ASK!
Just whisper in her ear something like, “I want to know what makes it happen for you. And if you tell me, I promise that you’ll be throwing ROCKS at every other guy that you’ve ever been with”
… or something like that.
My buddy David Wygant has a great post by a woman no less… that can tell you exactly what women are looking for…
You can check it out here… but make sure you come back.
Another thing that many guys deal with is the “lack of size issue”…
Let me tell you something.
Of all of the women that I’ve talked to… I really don’t hear that much about size. Oh sure, they’ll talk about it like it’s some IDEAL… but it never really comes into the conversation as a “deal breaker”.
Lance Mason, the founder of Pick Up 101, has a post on his blog with a gentleman asking about the problem of a small member.
My response to that… and most people are going to laugh at this.
Most women will concede that a vast majority of men that have BIG DICKS really aren’t that good in the sack… for the simple reason that most of these guys think that that’s all they need…
… so they don’t really work on foreplay… or oral sex… or any of the other things that REALLY get women going.
So, have a little grin to yourself in knowing that, Shorty… I’m kidding… lol
But all jokes aside… just pay attention to her.
Have a goal. My goal is for her to look at me afterward with those eyes that say “Holy shit”
Oh, and after I’m though making sure that she’s “had a good time”… I always throw out a sly challenge about how it takes someone REALLY special to make it happen for me.
If you’ve done your job… she’ll work you like a crazed demon.
You know, I think that this may be my only post in the SEX category on this blog… hell, that’s the only sex secret I know.
Happy hunting.
p.s. You definitely have to try the “small dick” jokes. Work them into the conversation. A recent situation for me was at a restaurant bar where the woman looks at my drink and says, “So, are you going to get another one?”… to which I slyly replied, “I know what’s going on… you’re trying to take advantage of me aren’t you (she smiles and nods head with a devious smile)? Well, no worries for you… I’m only about that big (I put up my hand and spread my thumb and index finger about an inch and a half apart).
Her reply… “Yeah right (as she starts rubbing up my leg… which I dutifully moved away… lol), I’ve gotta see that!”
And mine… “Well, if you ACT RIGHT… maybe I’ll let you catch a peek”…
Try it… it’s so damn fun.
Oh, and by the way… this “tactic” is so effective… just about every one of my friends that have seen me pull the “two inch killer” routine now use it themselves… it’s THAT GOOD.
