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Maybe I should rephrase that title, maybe I should call this…
“How To Turn Her On Without Knowing What The Hell You’re Saying”
Because that’s what this is about.
A lot of the material that you’ve probably read so far on most of the blogs and forums more than likely talks about what to say to a woman… to seduce her… to get a phone number… to get sex… etc.
Remember this though, only 10% of your communication with a woman is the actual words that come out of your mouth.
Follow me for a second:
Let’s just say that you’ve just met an incredible woman from Brazil… and she doesn’t speak a lick of English AT ALL. But, for some reason or another, she’s all over you… looking at you seductively… speaking a language that you don’t know, or barely know… whispering.
You try to remember what she’s saying because you HAVE to ask someone what’s going on… what are these words that are getting you SO aroused.
That look… her voice… simply mesmerizing.
Unfortunately, you can’t stay with her… you’re at the airport and you have to leave because your plane is now boarding.
She whispers something final into your ear that you lock into your head… you remember the words precisely.
So, you get on the plane and a sexy woman from the States sits next to you. Because you’ve just been jumped by this incredible woman outside, you’re ON.
You begin to chat her up for a second until finally your curiosity gets the better of you and you tell her the story of what just happened outside.
You ask if she knows what the last phrase meant when she starts to laugh uncontrollably.
You’re nervous… and don’t want to know.
She begins to tell you the news:
“What she told you was that she had fun playing around with you and that she’s never been around someone with such a small penis before… and that if you could understand her… you would have realized that she just picked your pocket without you even knowing.”
And damn if she wasn’t right.
I know, likely story… but I wanted you to understand something.
It’s not what you say that counts, its how you say it. It’s your body language, your tone, the way you look at a person.
Are you looking into her eyes… or are your eyes wandering around the room as you speak?
Are you using a slower, deeper voice… or are you speaking in a higher pitch because you’re nervous.
Are you relaxed and laid back… or are you fidgeting?
Once you get your presentation right, the words just don’t matter as much. You don’t have to worry about making mistakes.
Hell, she might not even be LISTENING to what you’re saying… only HEARING the tone and OBSERVING the way you carry yourself.
Remember something.
Being good looking… and being sexy are two TOTALLY different things.
You can be good looking… and sexy.
You can be not so good looking… but still be sexy.
You can also be good looking… but not sexy.
Or you could really bottom out and be neither.
If you have to pick, being sexy is always going to be preferred over being good looking.
Being sexy is a LEARNED trait. It’s how you speak, how you move, how you carry yourself… it’s who you are as a person.
Being good looking in general… is genetic.
Think about this for a second. How many women have you met that are INCREDIBLY good looking, but just aren’t sexy. Maybe their attitude sucks… maybe they’re just immature. You know what I’m saying.
Or, how many woman have you met that aren’t that great looking… maybe they’re carrying a few extra pounds… whatever… but there’s something about them that you just can shake.
You’re attracted to them and you can’t figure out why.
That’s the power of being sexy.
Start concerning yourself more on your delivery. Be aware of how your speaking… your tone… your eye contact… and you’ll be surprised at what happens.
Do you know why?
Because if you start to work on these things, and if you’re aware of yourself, the words just start to come to you naturally.
You’ll see.
