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Who would have thought that a line from 50 Cent would make it to this here blog… lol.
Nevertheless… I’ve finally gotten off my ass and composed my list of “21 Power Questions” that you can ask a woman (or a man if you’re a woman reading this… sheesh… how many women ARE reading this?) to build MONSTER rapport and to get her to say those oh-so-special-words…
“I just feel so… COMFORTABLE… around you”
Are you ready? Remember… these questions… used correctly reveal A LOT… much more than meets the eye.
Here’s the 1st round of 3… more tomorrow.
We’ll start with my favorite…
1. “If you were to have a PERFECT DAY, what would it be like”
I love this question because it should put her in a comfortable state once she gets talking about it. Now, you may have to probe a little because I guarantee that she’s never thought about this before. Also, most people are going to try to make sure that their “perfect days” are up to standard… so she’ll be qualifying herself to you.
Hopefully, she’ll mention that she’d like to be doing something with someone that she cares about deeply… and that may have her looking at you with different eyes… since it will probably ring home that she doesn’t have that special someone right now… and that special someone could most probably be you.
Make sure that you have a great response to this one as she’ll more than likely ask you the same thing in return… so make it good…
2. “If you had a credit card with no limit… and that you didn’t have to pay back… what would you do with it (or what would you buy).”
This is a great question to find out where someone’s head is at. Are they severely materialistic… a possible gold digger? Do they have aspirations?
How creative is this person? Would they start their own business?
You can find out A LOT about a person’s goals and dreams this way. Again, you’re asking questions that no one else is asking.
3. “What’s the worst thing that you’ve done that you probably should have went to jail for”
I like this question because it’s funny… but it also sets the stage for some good natured ribbing… as well as opening her up for some adventure.
Trust me, no one wants to come off as a stiff and you can probably pull MULTIPLE INSTANCES of things to talk about.
Maybe she stole candy from a store as a kid… accuse her of being a kleptomaniac.
Maybe she broke something on purpose for revenge on someone… accuse her of being manipulative.
This is a good “psycho” alert question as well. Watch her eyes… you may be able to catch a “fiery” look if it’s a revenge thing.
Look… questions are POWERFUL and the right one’s can not only set the stage for a great conversation… but can deftly save you a lot of time if you know what you are looking for.
It’s time for you to be the “chooser”, instead of the “choosee”.
Oh, and if at any time… you’ve got some good ones… put them in the comments section. If I really like ‘em… I’ll use them in a later installment and kick one or two of mine out…
More questions in this “series” tomorrow.
