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“When you only date a few women, as most men do, you fall prey to misconceptions and bitter, downward spirals of attitude, which crimp your ability to meet more women. When you meet and date many women, you have the ability to learn about what does and does not work, find those traits that you desire, versus those that drive you insane – to take control of your dating experience, rather than it taking control of you”
– from the Dating Black Book
I have a challenge for you… and the real reason that I’m doing this is because it’s something that I recently did.
Get rid of all of the women that don’t fit what you are looking for.
I noticed in my own life that I had a few women that I kept on a string… just in case I didn’t have anything else to do. Unfortunately, when you’re in this situation… you don’t find things to do… to just revert back to “old faithful”. If you’ve got a stable of women that fall into this catagory…
… move on. Quit talking to them.
It’s just like business… if you need to fire someone but you “can’t” because you don’t have anyone to take their place… fire them anyway.
Fact: most people won’t start looking for other options until the sense of urgency dictates them to do so.
Don’t get complacent in anything… especially if it isn’t up to your standards.
Remember, without urgency, there are no results.
(and, on the sense of urgency kick… tell yourself you have two days to meet 30 women that fit what you are looking for… then execute… and marvel at the results)
Here’s why you need to dump the scraps (for lack of a better term)…
Starting over and succeeding breeds confidence.
Sure, it may be a little scary… but that’s the price you pay for stretching your boundaries and growing as a person.
No pain, no discomfort… no personal growth.
And, the more confidence that you can develop, the less you worry about kicking undeserving women to the curb. You don’t HAVE to put up with any B.S…
In fact, why would you?
On that note, don’t you think that women will realize that you don’t have to be around.
I was watching “John Tucker Must Die” the other day (okay movie, catch on a slow day) and the 3 girls that were fighting over him said something like…
“Sure, we could break up with him… but he’d have another girlfriend in a week…”
Interesting.
This guy is cheating on ALL OF THEM and they don’t want to break up with him because of his ability to get other women quickly.
Let’s ponder this for a minute.
Now, we all know that women are fiercely competitive with each other. I have to confess, I was talking to a “player” of a woman the other day when she admitted…
“There’s nothing like snatching a man from the clutches of another woman”
Interesting. Provocative even.
It’s the “you want what you can’t have” syndrome all over again.
Create scarcity with yourself when you can… and resolve to never settle for less than that what you desire.
For more great information on the horrible choices that men make in regards to women, check out Carlos Xuma’s Dating Black Book. With over 400 pages of “bait”, this manuscript is a MUST READ for all men… from the beginner… to the seasoned vet.
And don’t forget, reply to my email address (angeleyes.at.angeleyesdevilsmile.com) with a copy of your receipt… and I’ll send you the Dating Black Book mind map that I’ve created… my “Secret To Lasting Change”… and a copy of my special social proof report, “Explode Your Influence”…
Anything to help you take control of this area of your life.
More on the Dating Black Book expose around 12pm EST tomorrow.
“Second place just means first loser”
