“Take no advice from anyone that isn’t doing the things that you want to do… or living the life you want to lead”

– from the Dating Black Book

Amen, brother.

I can’t tell you how many people take poor advice… be it about losing weight, money, sex, love, relationships, work… from people that aren’t even there themselves…

Like the financial planner that just got out of college… do you seriously think that he/she is where YOU WANT TO BE.

Of course not.

That’s why I throw up stories and other relative things… because you need to know if I’m walking the walk… or just blowing smoke.

Here’s another social proof story for you from this past weekend.

So I call a buddy of mine that I haven’t seen in a while and find out what’s going on Sat night. I’ve just moved back into town and… of course… I’m using my principles of “social explosion” that I explain in “Explode Your Influence” to get back in the game.

We go out and meet a few women that he knows (and naturally, he’s told one of them ALL ABOUT ME).

Was I surprised when she reacted favorable toward me? Was I surprised when she’s been calling him to find out if “I liked her at ALL”?

Nope.

That’s just a little example of social proof in action.

Here’s another:

So that same night… my friend is watching me effortlessly talk to woman after woman… no real goal in mind… just talking and having fun.

At the end of the night… we end up at the damn Waffle House.

We see a group of seven getting out of a Lexus and a Mercedes… and of course, I can’t let my guy down can I :)

I start small talking one of the girls (the “leader” of the group) by the bathroom… and the next thing I know… I’m sitting there with 4 women around me at the table… my buddy’s at another table with the other ones.

The conversation was wild and I promise that every one of those women at the table ended up talking about the “naughty” things that they would do to me.

And I’m not even trying… I’m just laughing at them… and saying “Oh, really, do you think she’s better than YOU?”

Hell, they even bought my food… in fact, they INSISTED ON IT.

Afterward… my friend… who’s no slouch with women either… calls me a few days later and asks me what my weekend looks like…

Apparently, he’s been running his mouth about the weekend and two of his women friends want to hang out, one of which is a model (so he says… lol).

Exact words… “I’ve already told them about you… and they want to meet you…”

How do you think that is going to go?

Pretty favorably… don’t you think?

Remember, the better and better you get at this… the easier it gets. People WANT to introduce you to other people… because now you can do things that most people can’t. AND, since they know that you are going to make a good impression, they’ll gladly refer people over “to you”.

Think about how powerful that is.

For more great information on powerful social proof examples… and how to use them effectively, check out Carlos Xuma’s Dating Black Book. With over 400 pages of “written smoke”, this manuscript is a MUST READ for all men… from the beginner… to the seasoned vet.

And don’t forget, reply to my email address (angeleyes.at.angeleyesdevilsmile.com) with a copy of your receipt… and I’ll send you the Dating Black Book mind map that I’ve created… my “Secret To Lasting Change”… and a copy of my special social proof report, “Explode Your Influence”…

Quit making it hard on yourself..

More on the Dating Black Book expose around 12pm EST tomorrow.





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