… and you didn’t disappoint.

We got some great questions in and Race dropped a few golden nuggets as well… apparently the guy just can’t help but give it all away… almost.

When you listen in, you’re going to discover:

- Race’s #1 frame of mind that he uses with ALL women, before he even says hello

- What to do when you get the dreaded “Who IS This” text

- How to transition from “text” to “sex” – without seeming like a dirtbag (and she’ll LOVE YOU for this one)

- Reconnection strategies for the one you let “get away”

There are a lot of tips and techniques in this interview. I was impressed to say the least.

And, even if this isn’t your cup of tea, you should listen in ANYWAY. There are some great overall tips as well, from approaching women to getting phone numbers in a fun, relaxed, never-fails way.

Interested?

I thought so… just hit play and let the fun times roll!

Stay cool,

Brad

p.s. I just finished reviewing Race’s B4 U TXT HER system and it’s money… so buy with confidence.

I’m laughing at this because I actually thought of using this title as a headline for a product… lol.

Would it work, who knows?

However, judging by the way some guys view sex and dating… or the lack thereof… the sense of urgency that many portray may actually suggest that it just might happen.

Picture this.

You just got home from the bar with a pretty cool chick… she’s digging you… things look great.

Lots of kissing, fondling, etc…

… but she’s just not ready to let you jump her… not yet.

So what do most men do?

They try to TALK HER INTO IT.

“Baby, you KNOW how good it would feel” (of course she does, unless she’s a virgin, but we won’t go that route)

“Let’s play a game of ‘just the tip’” (hmmm, slick one there Don Juan)

Think about it this way for a second.

If you had another woman coming over in 2 hours to give you all the nookie you could handle, how would you react to a woman not wanting to have sex with you?

I’d bet you wouldn’t give a one damn.

Yet here lies the key.

She can FEEL it when you’re pushing… playfully nudging is fine… but trying to CONVINCE someone to have sex with you is like jumping feet first in a black hole… you AIN’T NEVER COMING BACK…

… or at least that night.

Look, most women (in my experience), aren’t trying to string you along like some sick game.

She’s THERE! Which means there’s SOME interest.

Think about it this way… if I hit you with a sales pitch for a product as SOON as you came to my site… what would you do?

What if I tried to talk you into it… what if I loaded it up with pressure… sense of urgency… etc?

How would you feel?

Wouldn’t you feel better about yourself if you actively CHOSE to buy, rather than being talked into it?

No, you’d rather feel comfortable with me… to know that I’m not gonna scam you (or give you the clap).

And so does she.

Now, that DOESN’T mean that you have to be the nice guy suck up.

In fact, that’s even worse.

Learn to tease and get her to chase.

Get her going… warm her up… give her something to be curious about…

Don’t push. Make it her idea.

And for GOD’S SAKE… when you DO get up to bat… hit the son-of-a-bitch out of the park!

Give her everything that you can.

When it’s all over here’s what you want her to be thinking:

“I don’t know if I should have done that… but HOLY SHIT it was WORTH IT!”

(Maybe I should rename this post… how to create a stalker… lol)

One more thing, as an aside.

If you’re making sure that a woman is getting everything she can possibly get out of her sexual encounter with you… and you do that for every woman that feasts her eyes on your naked body…

… trust me, you’ll never worry about a lack of sex again…

… because WORST case scenario, she’s gonna tell her friends… and if she’s not interested any more…

… THEY WILL BE

And you can take that to the bank.

I hear a lot of guys talk about last minute resistance…

Picture this.

You’ve got a woman in bed and she seems pretty hot.

Naturally, you’ve been kissing her and feeling her up like “normal”… you’re hovering over her… your face planted on hers.

Everything’s going “according to plan”.

Then…

The inevitable happens:

I don’t know about this.

-or-

I think we’re moving too fast

-or-

But we just met.

I can tell you… nothing takes the air out of a moment like a woman that gets stuck like a deer in headlights.

Sure, you can back off… and then comfort her… try to rebuild and go for the kill again.

You know… the whole “act like you don’t need it” thing.

But… here’s the problem.

You’re the one chasing her, metaphorically.

You’re on top of her.

You’re taking things to the next level with HER.

Are you following me?

She’s starting to feel like this whole interaction isn’t her idea.

So… here’s my solution to PREEMPT this scenario.

Once things start getting a little hot and heavy:

ROLL THE WOMAN ON TOP OF YOU!

That’s it.

It’s simple… but deadly… and works like a charm.

Think about it.

Most women AREN’T going to stop kissing you… and will probably start moving their hips against your crotch.

Not only that, but now SHE’S the one that’s CHOOSING to take things to the next level… even if that isn’t really the case because you’re still rubbing, touching, and caressing in the right spots…

… but because she’s on top… in her mind… she’s deciding to “go for it”…

And what’s even BETTER?

If she DOES make a comment about how things are moving to fast… she won’t stop… she might slow down… but she won’t stop.

In fact, she’ll likely talk herself back into it… especially if you’re playing it cool.

She’ll say:

I know we shouldn’t be doing this… but I just can’t help myself….

… or something like that.

But her being on top of the interaction… she subconsciously convinces herself that THIS is what she wants.

Try it.

(Oh… and by the way… this DOESN’T mean that you just LAY THERE. Sure, if you need to get things going more… and need to gently reach up with two hands to pull her lips back down to you… this STILL APPLIES…

… you’re a smart guy… you’re picking up what I’m putting down… lol)

Shhhhh, don’t tell anyone

In my readings, it seems that not too many people are very comfortable in their own skin…

I read about how people want to stay under the covers… or how they want to keep the lights off… or how they just want the person of their desires to look at them in the eyes the whole time.

Do you know what I’m talking about?

Ask yourself this question… when things are about to get hot and heavy… are you completely comfortable walking around in the nude?

Not only this, but when you get to the actual part of being nekked… do you feel like you have the skills needed to satisfy the person laying next to you?

What goes through your head as you begin to caress the beautiful woman beside you… or is she even pretty… because you feel like you can’t get any better?

I know plenty of people that think this way.

Do you know what’s harder to do than having sex with a beautiful woman for the first time?

Having sex with her the second time!

Because, the simple fact is this… you can give away all of the right signals to close the deal… but if you can’t live up to the signals that you’ve given… there will be no second time.

But, there’s hope.

Do you know what the fortunate/unfortunate thing about this whole thing is…

You CAN do something about it!

I have to confess, I’m hoping this post doesn’t come across as controversial. The simple fact is this… the more comfortable you are with your body… the more “exciting” other things become…

Of course, that’s coming from the magazine experts… not me

So what’s the answer?

Well, in my experience, there are two types of people in the world… the ones that sit around and bitch about how life sucks and how nothing ever goes their way… how if ONLY things were different… etc…

… and then there’s the person that looks at their situation and decides that they’ve HAD ENOUGH… and they MAKE A CHANGE.

And to quote my favorite quote again:

Boys, there ain’t no free lunches in this country. And don’t go spending your whole life commiserating that you got the raw deals. You’ve got to say, “I think that if I keep working at this and want it bad enough I can have it.” It’s called perseverance.
-Lee Iacocca

But what change do you make… or does it matter.

Here’s what I suggest:

Just do SOMETHING… get moving in a direction… if it’s the WRONG direction… you’ll figure it out soon enough.

Experiment… read a book… start working out so that you can get stronger.

Fact: Stronger people can do things that weaker people cannot. Wanna throw her around a bit? Wanna try to last longer than 30 seconds because you have no “wind”?

But that’s not all. Start to get into her mind. Learn to seduce such that EVERY single time that you have sex it’s HER idea… yet you seem to be going at it MORE than you ever have.

Discover tantra.

Read about it. Who knows, maybe you’ll pick something up.

Fact: The more you have in your sexual “tool box”, the more confident that you will be when it comes you sex.

You’ll never know until you TRY SOMETHING. You’ll never get anywhere standing still.

Do you want a better life? Do you want more romance… more affection… more attraction…

Then get to work!

The simple fact is this… the better you feel about yourself… the more confidence you have in yourself and your body… the “sexier” you become…

… and you can ask any man or woman what they think of confidence in the opposite sex.

STOP feeling like there are no answers… quit being afraid of yourself…

Make some changes TODAY.

If you’re ready… and I sincerely hope you are… Your Dating Diet is waiting for you. Launched in beta just a few short weeks ago… this revolutionary program is getting rave reviews and is THE definite answer to you feeling comfortable in your own skin again.

It’s up to you… it always has been… and it always will be…

So what are you going to do?

Are you ready to stop feeling ashamed of yourself when you’re nekked?

… the definition of foreplay is not touching where she knows you want to touch and where she eventually wants you to touch. Foreplay is just one big tease. Have fun with it. Remember: Barry Bonds doesn’t have to run fast because he knows he’s hit a home run. Think about it.

– from the Dating Black Book

This is going to be an interesting post to say the least… with quotes and links to a few different resources… so pay attention.

I have the opportunity to talk to different woman all of the time… and let me tell you… women talk about sex just as much… IF NOT MORE than men do.

And apparently, most women aren’t too satisfied with either:

1. The lack of sex that they are getting or
2. The lack of fulfillment in the sex that they ARE getting

Do you want me to tell you my secret for dynamite sex… the kind that either gets her telling all of her friends… or none of them because she doesn’t want the word to get out about how knock out it is?

Okay, but let me digress first.

Let me tell you a little story about an ex of mine that I just recently talked to… after not speaking at all for roughly two months.

Anyway, she gives me a call and we end up chatting for a while over at her place by the pool.

She straight up asked me… or should I say “baited” me…

“So, do you even miss me at all?”

I laughed and shot her a wicked smile… “You know, I do miss our FRIENDSHIP”… (which wasn’t what she was expecting, of course).

“Why do you ask?”, I quizzed her.

“I was just curious,” she answered… obviously a little disappointed in my answer.

I laughed again and said, “What, do you not miss our FRIENDSHIP?”

“No, it’s not that… I JUST REALLY MISS THE SEX.”

… which I already knew… notice… I did say she baited me.

And it’s funny… because… she was ranting and raving about how things were with the new guy she’s been dating…

Her reply to my probing of “I thought things were good like that between you guys”:

“It is… but it’s just not the same…”

And, of course, I stopped the direction of the conversation there and changed the subject. I knew where it could possibly lead and I really didn’t want to be in that situation.

I bring up this conversation because I want to illustrate one point:

If you’re good in the sack… women will think about you often… even when they really shouldn’t be.

I have to confess, I don’t feel like Ron Jeremy… or anything like that. In fact, I often employ the whole “two inch killer” routine to get women laughing and spark curiosity.

(If you’ve read my post on Using “Obvious Lies” To Create A Challenge, you’ll know that I LOVE talking about how small my pecker is in a fun, humorous-but-you-never-know way. I figured out a while ago that women don’t really believe much of what comes out of your mouth when it comes to either money or dick size so I reasoned that she might as well BELIEVE the way that I want her to believe. Plus, she HAS to satisfy her curiosity at that point…

Plus, I pulled this out on a stripper about 4 years ago and she straight up looked at me and said, “Dude, shut up… every guy that I’ve met that’s said something about how small they are… are usually freakin’ huge… so kill the small dick talk”

‘Nuff said. That’s going into my conversation with every woman… lol.)

Do you know the secret?

Here it comes…

JUST PAY ATTENTION.

Look, it’s not all about taking some chick back to the house and jackhammering the shit out of her… which… according to most of the women I’ve talked to… leaves them totally unfulfilled.

Every woman is different. The things that worked on your ex might work with the new girl… or they might not.

It’s Columbus time… so get to exploring.

My whole goal is for her to look at me afterward and go “What in the hell did you just do to me?”

JUST PAY ATTENTION.

Take your time… try different things.

Most women claim that most men have no IDEA what they are doing when they are going down on them… NO IDEA.

JUST PAY ATTENTION.

If you start doing something and she squirms (in a good way)… make a mental note and come back to it later.

And for heavens sake… don’t let your ego get in the way on this one. Set it on the nightstand.

JUST PAY ATTENTION.

Explore. Touch. Tease. Observe.

And if you can’t figure it out… JUST MAN UP AND ASK!

Just whisper in her ear something like, “I want to know what makes it happen for you. And if you tell me, I promise that you’ll be throwing ROCKS at every other guy that you’ve ever been with”

… or something like that.

My buddy David Wygant has a great post by a woman no less… that can tell you exactly what women are looking for…

You can check it out here… but make sure you come back.

Another thing that many guys deal with is the “lack of size issue”…

Let me tell you something.

Of all of the women that I’ve talked to… I really don’t hear that much about size. Oh sure, they’ll talk about it like it’s some IDEAL… but it never really comes into the conversation as a “deal breaker”.

Lance Mason, the founder of Pick Up 101, has a post on his blog with a gentleman asking about the problem of a small member.

My response to that… and most people are going to laugh at this.

Most women will concede that a vast majority of men that have BIG DICKS really aren’t that good in the sack… for the simple reason that most of these guys think that that’s all they need…

… so they don’t really work on foreplay… or oral sex… or any of the other things that REALLY get women going.

So, have a little grin to yourself in knowing that, Shorty… I’m kidding… lol

But all jokes aside… just pay attention to her.

Have a goal. My goal is for her to look at me afterward with those eyes that say “Holy shit”

Oh, and after I’m though making sure that she’s “had a good time”… I always throw out a sly challenge about how it takes someone REALLY special to make it happen for me.

If you’ve done your job… she’ll work you like a crazed demon.

You know, I think that this may be my only post in the SEX category on this blog… hell, that’s the only sex secret I know.

Happy hunting.

p.s. You definitely have to try the “small dick” jokes. Work them into the conversation. A recent situation for me was at a restaurant bar where the woman looks at my drink and says, “So, are you going to get another one?”… to which I slyly replied, “I know what’s going on… you’re trying to take advantage of me aren’t you (she smiles and nods head with a devious smile)? Well, no worries for you… I’m only about that big (I put up my hand and spread my thumb and index finger about an inch and a half apart).

Her reply… “Yeah right (as she starts rubbing up my leg… which I dutifully moved away… lol), I’ve gotta see that!”

And mine… “Well, if you ACT RIGHT… maybe I’ll let you catch a peek”…

Try it… it’s so damn fun.

Oh, and by the way… this “tactic” is so effective… just about every one of my friends that have seen me pull the “two inch killer” routine now use it themselves… it’s THAT GOOD.