“See the Truth. Recognize a woman for what she is, not as you want her to be. Anything else is an illusion and will only serve to haunt you and cause you pain.”
– from the Dating Black Book
Why do we make these mistakes?
Women are who they are… and you aren’t going to change that. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen guys make excuses for the women that they’re with (and actually, it works the other way as well, too)
Things like:
Yeah, she’s like that because (insert childhood drama).
-or-
She only acts like that because she has (insert over-inflated problem).
-or-
Yeah, she cheated on her husband with me… she’ll never cheat on me though.
Look, she is WHO SHE IS.
Her problems define her. They most likely aren’t going to change.
Listen to your close friends. If more than one friend is telling you that a woman is bad for you… dump her. Trust me, they can see everything that you can’t.
If she has qualities that you are continuing to have to defend… she’s gotta go.
If you’re continually telling people that they just don’t understand the DYNAMIC between the two of you… think about what you’re really into.
I like this quote from “Fast And The Furious: Tokyo Drift”. It’s when Han is talking to the kid about racing… and wreaking his car… really pay attention because I truly feel that this is important:
I have money… it’s TRUST and CHARACTER I need around me.
You know… who you choose to be around you… let’s you know who you are.
One car in exchange for knowing what a man’s made of… … that’s a price I can live with.
Remember, it’s your standards that eventually define you.
… and a woman that’s bad for you tells everyone else exactly where you think your own self worth is… because NO ONE is THAT oblivious to the facts.
For more great information on the f’d up stuff men put up with from undeserving women, check out Carlos Xuma’s Dating Black Book. With over 400 pages of “written dynamite”, this manuscript is a MUST READ for all men… from the beginner… to the seasoned vet.
And don’t forget, reply to my email address (angeleyes.at.angeleyesdevilsmile.com) with a copy of your receipt… and I’ll send you the Dating Black Book mind map that I’ve created… my “Secret To Lasting Change”… and a copy of my special social proof report, “Explode Your Influence”…
Anything to help you avoid some of the mistakes I’VE made in this journey called “life”