Adam Gilad is a funny guy.

He’s also a guy that agrees with me on the “Admiration” versus “attraction” principle… but enough about that.

Let’s talk about what you’re gonna get out of this interview.

In this High Gravity Male edition of the Adonis Lifestyle podcast, I talk with Adam Gilad about the challenges of dating when you get to be over 30 years of age.

However, if you go through this interview with a fine toothed comb, you’ll happily discover that it actually gets EASIER as you get older, not harder – especially if you’re living and paying attention to the principles that Adam talks about.

No matter how old you are, and no matter if you’re single, divorced, have a girlfriend, or have 3-somes on the regular…

… you WILL get a lot of great takeaway knowledge from today’s podcast, guaranteed.

B

p.s. If you’re interested in checking out Adam’s new “Ageless Attraction” program, just go here.

Ageless Attraction with Adam Gilad [ 45:11 ] Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

There’s something I want you to do.

And, if you do this one thing, I promise you that you’ll have more fruitful relationships, sex, and OPTIONS (if you need them).

What’s that one thing?

It’s simple.

Quit thinking in terms of “attraction” and instead… start thinking in terms of “admiration”

This one shift will make a HUGE difference in your life… and, if you become admired, naturally, attraction comes along for the ride.

Want proof?

Okay.

Do you know one of the major reasons that men cheat on their wives with women from work?

BING, BING, BING!

It’s because the woman at work sees him in action and admires what he does. AND, because he FEELS admired (and believe me, admiration feels a LOT better than just attraction), he gives in to the feeling (likely because his wife at home has stopped admiring him long ago).

It’s kind of a 2 way street.

So think about that for a bit. Let that rumble around in your noggin’. Remember, this is big boy game we’re talking about.

The Question: Is what you’re doing today fostering admiration?

B

In today’s edition of the Adonis Lifestyle: High Gravity Male Podcast, I talk to Bill Preston of The Vibe

Now, I met Bill when I was in Austin a few weeks back and along with Christian Hudson, did some of the coolest and funnest stuff I’ve seen around women including TRYING to get blown off… that was classic.

In this interview, Bill’s gonna reveal:

- A cool “Do I Know You” look that engages women on a subconscious level and efficiently “breaks the ice” without saying a word.
- A fun game you can play as a conversation starter
- Why guys don’t really have “approach anxiety”, but THIS instead

Plus a lot more.

This is a fun conversation and you’ll get to hear both Bill and I’s BEST outlooks and positioning for yourself. You should be able to take away a lot from this and plug these ideas and tactics into your life…

TODAY.

If you like the way Bill handles himself, you can check him here… it’s good stuff.

Bill Preston and The Vibe [ 1:03:22 ] Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

(Pilon and I mingling with cool people at the pool… and yes, our women were laughing and the ones taking the pics… lol)

On Monday… we discussed a little about “saying yes to yourself” and giving yourself permission to actually do things (like ask a woman out)…

… and, I actually discussed this same topic for a bit with Bill Preston of “The Vibe” in Friday’s upcoming podcast.

But here’s something that I never really hear anyone consider, and I got the notion for it from Mike in a comment for Monday saying:

My biggest sticking point is I don’t believe in myself, or give myself enough credit.

I see this a lot.

And in fact, in thinking about the solution to this problem, let me pose something to you.

A LOT of the dating, seduction, and relationship material that’s being preached almost always focuses on you being the BEST at controlling any particular interaction. For example, you walk into a bar… you should be able to get ANY woman to come home with you.

This is the FOCUS – the ability to bat 100% on any given night.

The Problem?

It totally takes away a lot of the NATURAL part of finding someone.

In other words, the part where YOU DECIDE if a person is right for you or not.

Look, if you’re on our Adonis newsletter, you’d know that I talk about being COMPETENT and CONSISTENT versus “perfect” any day.

And I’m here to tell you, it applies in this situation as well. It’s OKAY to be GOOD ENOUGH at this. You don’t need the 100% batting average (although if you relax, give fun, and live “high gravity”… your batting average naturally skyrockets.)

So check this out.

On the way to the office this morning, I was listening in to some celebrity gossip and yes, although its not my brightest moment, it did make me think about something.

YOU CAN LOSE EVERYTHING YOU’VE EVER WORKED FOR IF YOU CHOOSE THE WRONG WOMEN IN YOUR LIFE!

… and it doesn’t even have to be money.

Self respect.

Friends.

Family.

Listen, part of this whole game is getting out of your head about being “good enough” ESPECIALLY when good enough means you’re surrounding yourself with the wrong women.

The wrong women will make you have an extreme dislike and disrespect of ALL women… trust me… been there.

Being able to sleep with needy women, that are married, or have boyfriends… isn’t a SKILL.

It’s just a matter of letting them take advantage of you.

So when you’re out telling your friends that you’re “the man” because you slept with a married chick… just realize you just got used for your pecker, and that BEST case, it required you just showing her a LITTLE more attention than her husband does.

That’s not GAME…

… that’s being in the right place at the right time.

And as far as having “approach anxiety”… we cover this in Friday’s podcast, but let me leave you some things to think about.

Stable women, and I don’t care if they’re single, double, married, have boyfriends, girls night… whatever…

… NO stable woman will ever refuse to meet a cool guy.

Food for thought.

B

I noticed something this weekend while we in Vegas at the pool. (we being Barban, Pilon, and myself plus sig others)

There are a LOT of people waiting for life to spontaneously happen for them.

It’s like no one wants to take a bit of a risk and LEAD.

A good example is the fact that Pilon and I were hanging at the pool, talking to everyone and really just galvanizing everyone into a really big group. (Which sounds about normal to me). But, even though it’s Vegas, you could see that both guys and girls really needed to be lead into having a REALLY good time.

I mean, we couldn’t really give people permission to have fun… you know?

So lets have some fun as I wake this blog back up.

Tell me what your biggest sticking points are and let me know how I can help you out. I’ve got 2 new reports coming out for you and I really want to get this nailed for you. Also, I need to know who you want on the new podcast as well. Naturally, I’ve got my favorites and I’m interviewing Bill Preston of The Vibe this week…

Let me know what you need and I’ll hook you up.

Brad