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“You have to remember that her Slut Complex will be one of your biggest obstacles on the way to first having sex with her. This complex is only overcome by one thing: The level of her desire to sleep with you. To increase her desire, you increase her attraction for you and lower her level of mistrust she has towards men. At the same time, you always make sure that she is made to feel special and unique. If she senses that you do this with all the women, that she’s just another pickup, you’re going to risk losing her interest before you even have a chance to correct yourself.”
– from the Dating Black Book
Women are interesting creatures… I’ll give you that.
On the one hand… they want sex… and talk about sex… more than men do from what I’ve seen.
(Especially as they get older).
However, most women… but not all… have this “safety catch” called the Slut Complex that men have to overcome from time to time.
Is it a big deal?
Not at all.
I actually LIKE this fact.
But, for some people… its a weird catch-22…
Many guys like to THINK that they “worked” their way into a woman’s pants by being all smooth and everything… but… when one of their buddies comes up to tell them that THEY’VE been to the same place… things aren’t so kosher.
I have to admit though… overcoming the Slut Complex isn’t really as difficult as most would think… and there are many ways to do it.
If you’d made it this far, then you’ve read the portion from the Dating Black Book that I’ve included.
Look, EVERYONE wants to feel special… even guys. That’s why people get all huffy once they find out that a buddy has been with a girl.
So, in order to overcome the Slut Complex, you’ve got three things to do:
1. Amp up the desire and attraction. She has to want you more than her “safety catch” wants to stop her. Period. In order to do that, you have to be a worthwhile catch (see Buyers Remorse for more details). Be the “prize”… the trophy. Use teasing and push/pull to really dial it up.
2. Make her feel special. And no, I’m not talking about any foo-foo BS about “You’re the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen” crap. No, what I am talking about is conducting yourself in such a way that MAKES her feel special. This is all non-verbal… and what you do. Take your time… don’t rush (unless she takes the lead and ravages you). Tease. Believe me, most women will think that “they’ve made a connection” with you when you go this direction and THAT CONNECTION often overwhelms the Slut Complex.
(As an aside, I don’t think that a “connection” is a random thing at all. I think that a guy can create this out of thin air… as long as HE’S interested enough. I truly feel that you CAN make a connection on just about any woman if you pay attention to her signs. It’s not fate.)
3. Be trustworthy. Don’t pull any skanky behavior or say things that you know are only going to bring the drama and buyer’s remorse later on. Personally, I never want anyone to EVER regret the time that they’ve spent with me. It hurts “referrals”
There you go… the 3 ways that I know of that can overcome the Slut Complex… and make the both of you happy.
Happy hunting.
For more great information on the Slut Complex, and how to overcome it, check out Carlos Xuma’s Dating Black Book. With over 400 pages of “written smoke”, this manuscript is a MUST READ for all men… from the beginner… to the seasoned vet.
And don’t forget, reply to my email address (angeleyes.at.angeleyesdevilsmile.com) with a copy of your receipt… and I’ll send you the Dating Black Book mind map that I’ve created… my “Secret To Lasting Change”… and a copy of my special social proof report, “Explode Your Influence”…
Take the road less traveled.
More on the Dating Black Book expose around 12pm EST tomorrow.
