What’s Your Goal?

You know, I’ve been thinking about something for a little while now and since the last post… it’s been on the top of my mind so I want to get this out in the open before I expand on the whole “just meet people to meet people” scenario.

One of the things that gets under my skin is when people (gurus, teachers, whatever) try to tell you what to do about your situation…

… WHEN THEY DON’T EVEN KNOW WHAT YOUR GOALS ARE!

I mean, I hear it ALL the time in business… on how you’re supposed to do certain things to get a certain result… or how you should never use certain tactics… blah, blah, blah.

Or how you should only focus on “targeted leads”.

(Which is bullshit in my opinion…)

You see, if a person doesn’t know what your endgame is… how can they 1) Judge you and your methods and 2) HELP YOU

The answer, they can’t.

For example:

For the guys that tell you that you need to only focus on the women that are most likely to have sex with you… they are ASSUMING that sex is all you want. That’s your endgame.

But what if you want a cool ass girlfriend that your friends like… and your moms (ha… moms) will get along with.

Well, chances are… they aren’t the same person.

And really, if you want a targeted lead on some ass… 1-800-HOOKER1 is about as targeted as you can get, right?

Exactly.

Quite frankly… my strategies in general are all about casting a WIDE NET to find cool people for you to hang out with.

That means both guys and girls.

Cool guys know cool women.

Cool women know cool women.

I mean, lets face it… most people find their girlfriends through other people they know. Like when a girl you work with brings another cool woman to a party… and you hit it off.

So, my strategies basically put this effect ON STEROIDS.

Everything I teach and talk about revolves around how you SET YOURSELF UP before you even open your mouth.

When a woman sees you being friendly and easy going in a bar with other people… don’t you think she’ll be more inclined to chat you up with no force fields or whatever in place.

Of course.

Besides… why waste your whole night firing off on women left and right when you can meet all sorts of cool people that can help make you money, get you new jobs, introduce you to key players, and DO ALL THE WORK FOR YOU by introducing you to cool women.

THAT… my friend… is how you cultivate STATUS among your peers.

THAT… my friend… is the greatest aphrodisiac you can ever get your hands on.

Status simply makes everything easier… PERIOD.

And I know I’m gonna piss some people off by saying this… but if you disagree with me on this… then I KNOW FOR A FACT YOU HAVE NO STATUS!

Actually… I was just hanging out with Brent Smith in LA the other day when we got talking about this very thing.

I made the comment… or actually posed the question:

“How can we explain whats going on here… how we roll? I mean, how can I put this into WORDS that other guys can understand… because quite frankly… I’m thinking that until you’ve experienced it first hand… you’ll NEVER REALLY know how powerful it is (social status, social proof, owning a room, etc).”

And his reply:

“Yeah… you’re right. No one will ever understand… MUCH LESS BELIEVE YOU… until you show them, or they experience it, first hand…”

So before we go any farther… I just wanted to clear that up.

My strategies are in essence about dramatically improving your STATUS in any given situation… both in the short term (that night) and in the long term (networking).

(and that includes Adonis)

Because in all honesty…

… going this route is MUCH, MUCH easier than the path you might be on.

Chat later.