“The goal of your conversation with a woman is to increase her feelings of attraction to you, not kill them, while giving you an opportunity to learn about her. There’s no better way of accomplishing both than by using Intrigue Questions. These are questions that get her in touch with her positive feelings, and help associate them with you.”

– from the Dating Black Book

I had a woman ask me a question when I was visiting her in San Diego that completely blew my mind… because no one has EVER asked me anything like this before.

And honestly… I’m ashamed to say that I really didn’t have a great answer for her.

BUT… once I started thinking about it… I figured out that this one question can really let you see inside a woman’s soul… to see what she’s really about.

So, I started asking this question every chance I get… and you should see the response you get from it.

It’s damn near magical.

Oh, and it helps if you have and interesting/sensual/adventurous response to this question… because she’s gonna ask you the same thing when she’s done answering.

What’s the MAGIC question?

Simple.

After a bit of small talk, you can really switch gears by saying…

“I’ve got an interesting question for you… one that I am pretty sure you have never thought of an answer for. And, the reason I ask is because you can really get a feel for what a person’s about by analyzing the answer… it’s almost like a window into your soul.

Are you ready?

What would your perfect day be like?” (or “Describe your perfect day for me”)

Here’s why it’s so powerful…

Number One — No one wants to give a horrible answer to this question… so… in essence, you’ve just forced her to qualify herself to you. Think about it. She’s not going to say anything lame, especially sense you’ve just told her that you can tell what a person is about by the answer. This is VERY POWERFUL psychologically.

Number Two
— Most women are going to respond with something involving a bit of romance… sex… or the sharing of the experience with someone special. This gives her the opportunity to talk about these types of things without you inherently probing to get her to talk about it. She talks about it on her own.

Number Three
— Thinking about a “perfect day” puts people in a good mood. Also, people relax a little more because they are now thinking of being in a relaxing type environment. Plus, since you are there, it helps to anchor those feelings to you.

Number Four
— This is a great TRUST and RAPPORT question. Remember, no one asks this question of anyone so because you’ve asked, she has shared something with you that NO ONE ELSE KNOWS.

Number Five — The answer she gives will tell you A LOT about what’s important TO HER… and you can gage whether she might be a gold digger… a little psycho… etc. PLUS, the answer gives you great conversation points to talk about… or make fun of :)

Seriously, give this question a try and see what happens… you’ll be amazed at some of the responses…

For more great information on powerful Intrique Questions… and how to use them effectively, check out Carlos Xuma’s Dating Black Book. With over 400 pages of “written smoke”, this manuscript is a MUST READ for all men… from the beginner… to the seasoned vet.

And don’t forget, reply to my email address (angeleyes.at.angeleyesdevilsmile.com) with a copy of your receipt… and I’ll send you the Dating Black Book mind map that I’ve created… my “Secret To Lasting Change”… and a copy of my special social proof report, “Explode Your Influence”…

Because the best qualifiers… are the best CLOSERS.

More on the Dating Black Book expose around 12pm EST tomorrow.





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