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Here’s a mistake that I see people make all of the time…
The key to great relationships is definitely communication… BUT… communication doesn’t necessarily have to been you talking.
Why do I say this?
Well, in the beginning, when a person begins to feel that certain “buzzing” feeling in their gut when they are around a certain person… we all have this overpowering urge that says:
“I HAVE TO TELL THIS PERSON HOW I FEEL!”
Well, Paco, if you want to see the “love” of your life run for the hills faster than you can say “jackrabbit”… you go ahead and do that…
If you tell someone how you feel too soon, you ruin the tension that’s making it go.
That person knows beyond a shadow of a doubt that they have you… there’s no challenge anymore. And, you’ve inherently, cut “the chase” off.
So, before you go professing your “love” prematurely… hold off.
In fact, if someone asks you how you feel… say something like…
“I can’t believe you have to ask me that… you should be able to SEE how I feel”
…which is true.
Given a choice, show that person how you feel… not by showering with gifts or presents… but by being the “fun person” that you are.
Don’t kill the wonder… don’t kill the tension… don’t kill your chance… by opening your big mouth too soon.
Remember, mystery and intrigue are your friend.
