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I don’t have any music references today as I’ve pretty much FINALLY got YourDatingDiet.com up… in beta.
Talk about Brain Fog… wow.
Anyway, enough about that… you want questions… lots of great questions.
I’ve got a video for you to watch that I found on YouTube… and I think it will perfectly hammer home what I’m about to say.
So, in this installment of my “21 Questions” series… we are going to talk about the “assumptive close” to keep the conversation going.
13. “How does your day look tomorrow?”
You know, there’s probably 15 million ways to structure this question… and to be honest… I don’t care if people say that this question sucks… or whatever.
The reason nice guys finish last IS BECAUSE THEY NEVER TRY TO CLOSE… IN ANY WAY!
They are afraid to take anything to another level… because they are afraid of rejection.
Who fucking cares?
I don’t know about the rest of you… but I like to have a reason to call someone… and I like to have at LEAST a soft plan in place for the next interaction.
Because… dammit… my time IS important.
But that’s not the real reason that I ask a question like this. Think about it this way… if she commits to grabbing coffee with you… or going to Target… or hitting the strip club… she’s AT LEAST curious enough about you and there’s some type of attraction there.
Are you following me?
So, if you’re going to be around an establishment for a while… why not take this as a launching point to have more fun?
Sure… you could eject out if you want… but if she’s a pretty cool girl… why not stick around for a little while longer and amp up the attraction EVEN more.
To me… getting someone’s number… and then bouncing really quickly can be grounds for flaking. I like to think about it like you having sex with her… and then leaving immediately afterward.
Why give off that signal? Why not make the “plans and number” part of the show nonchalant… like it’s just part of the ride… not the end of the road.
Remember, she’s given you her number… she’s made a plan… she’s saying that she is interested… so KEEP moving forward.
Build more rapport… get to know her even better… use it as a stepping stone.
But for heaven’s sake… ask for the sale… lol
If you think I’m playing around… look at the video below.
More tomorrow… of course.
Oh… and check out YourDatingDiet.com (w/ Wygant)… smooth stuff… and cheap while it’s in beta…
