Here’s a mindset that I’ve adopted in the last year and it really helps…
What is it?
Simple.
You’re one person away from _________ . (insert goal)
I want you to think about something for a second. Everyone that I know that is successful… IN ANY ENDEAVOUR… had help… from someone.
Maybe it was a key introduction… maybe it was a financial contribution… whatever.
But, the fact is that people rarely get to the top on their own.
Here’s an example of what I call “Power Networking“.
I was just at a pretty posh party this weekend… standing in line waiting for a drink when I noticed an attractive woman standing right behind me.
And… as I noticed her… she curiously asked me who I was there with… who I knew… etc.
As we went through the line… I begin to tell her some of the things that I was involved with in business and a few of the current projects that I was working on when she told me that I just HAD to meet her husband… because his marketing firm could possibly be looking to collaborate with someone like myself.
Interesting, right?
Was she hitting on me? Nope.
In fact, I could tell right off the bat that this woman was a VERY powerful networker. You know, one of those people that could put you in contact with a potential business partner… or a potential mate.
Look, you are one person away from being a millionaire… you are one person away from finding the woman of your dreams.
If you’re lonely… or are getting over a rough relationship… just get out there and meet people JUST FOR THE SAKE OF MEETING THEM.
Every interaction with a woman doesn’t HAVE to be about hooking up… or having sex… or even dating them. But that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t still be meeting them.
So, if you start to have approach anxiety… or see someone you want to meet but are afraid that she may turn you down because she has a boyfriend… or whatever… just think about the fact that MAYBE… this person could eventually be a powerful ally.
Hell, her boyfriend may be a well connected individual as well.
Remember, you are one person away from anything you want… keep that in mind when you’re out and about…
And if you don’t believe it… read the biographies of successful people.
Try having this mentality for a month… I guarantee that your whole life improves.
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