Keep in mind that I had a bit of a sniffle while I was recording much of this… enjoy.
Here you go: (with basic outline)
**Bookmark this page**
Physique As A Weapon (Download pdf)
Uncut Jae Ellis Interview – 2hrs 10min (download wav)
==> Dating and Attraction 101
The Dirtiest Manipulation Technique Alive! (download mp3)
Introduction (download mp3)
– My characterization of everything – what I’ve learned
– The David D story – all started with a break up but not really
– me laughing once I opened it up
– Quick touch on what we’ll uncover
-what I should have known, but didn’t
– the secret to getting what you want
– marketing and influence concepts
– getting social and the power of not “sucking up”
– improving your package
– improving your odds and the ready, firm, aim approach
– thought process of the sexes
– how to open conversations including how to BE opened by
someone else with specific examples
– the difference between fear and anxiety and why it’s
important
– continuing conversations and comfort
– increasing your social worth (lots of great stuff here)
– attracting quality people
– some sex stuff and closing (although I hate that term)
– Your Gonna Find out: Most People Have It Right, But Don’t Know It
– Knowledge is worthless without application
– Constructs of why important
– why what you are isn’t as important as what you’re
BECOMING (the ride)
– What to watch for
– what “naturals” don’t want you to know
-they learned it too
– Why you shouldn’t be embarrassed, like sales training
– why most people don’t have to change the “core” of
themselves, they just have to change a few perceptions
– quit giving a damn, quit caring so much about what people
think
Resources brought up: Double Your Dating
What I Should Have Known, But Didn’t Know (download mp3)
– High School
– Freshman Year Fall Semester
– The Frat Years
– After The Frat, Intro to House Parties
The Secret To Getting What You Want — Mindset
Welcome To Marketing — Influence (download mp3)
-Scarcity
-Social proof
-Authority
-Agentic State Theory
-Reciprocity
-Liking/Approval
-Congruence
-”Buy” on emotion, then rationalize the action later
– Cognitive dissonance
Resources brought up: Cialdini’s “Six Weapons Of Influence”
Get Social – the first step (download mp3)
– Learn by watching, listening, and DOING
– Becoming comfortable talking to people
– Learn how people react to different things
– The power of being friendly
– understanding what “high quality women” are
– understanding cold, warm, and hot contacts
– understanding cold calling
– meeting just to meet
– treat people well, but never suck up
– the differences between a pick up artist, a player, and
a social maven
Improving Your Package (download)
– Being your “most dynamic” you
– your outrageous mental ego
– How do you feel about yourself
– Being Comfortable with yourself
– watch your vocabulary – words are mirrors
– Halo Effect
– Fat Loss Strategies (the second half of FLBB)
– the have to lose 10 before I can join story
– Clothes and what you CAN Improve
Never Settle — Improving Your Odds (download)
– Bringing people into YOUR WORLD
– Learned helplessness
– Rewarding good behavior
– Seeing opportunity everywhere
– The Flake
– Attack your presuppositions
– Ready, fire, aim approach
– Taking your strengths to 1% levels
– Determine the Life you want
– Get to know the REAL you
-strengths
-weaknesses
-differentiations
– Understanding your deal breakers
The Thought Process of the Sexes
The Art of Opening – Putting Yourself Out There (download mp3)
– How do you meet people through the day?
– Your daily routine
– So what if they think that you think that they’re attractive
– Why don’t you approach the people that intrigue you
– Top excuses and anxiety
– difference between FEAR and ANXIETY
– The dirty masturbation thought to relieve approach anxiety
– 3 second rule
– Natural Approach
– Using props
– environmental
– personal (like clothing)
– external (like an alki-sensor)
– If not you, then no one
– Places to meet people “cold”
– direct approaches
-friend under the bus
– indirect approaches
– my San Diego opener
– indifference, it’s no big deal
– body language
– approach invitations
– the “check out” (up and down look)
– eye cues
Resources brought up: David Wygant, The Art of Approaching by Thundercat
The Art of BEING Opened – Allowing yourself to be opened (continuation of above mp3)
– the simple smile
– positioning
– props (external)
– body language
The Art Of Conversation and Comfort
– the 80/15/5 rule (bodylanguage, tone, words)
– the 10 foot rule
– Power questions
– Power Answers – question bait
– guarding against assumption
– Phone skill
– Text Teasing
– Buidling Intrigue
– The art of storytelling
– The Art Of Banter
– teasing
– innuendo
– getting them to chase you
– Touching
Increasing your social worth – Managing Your Contacts
– Friends versus Aquantances
– Expanding Your Social Circle
– Just say “yes”
– Creating a buzz
– Hubs
– Raving Fans
– Audacity
– Reputation management
– Your black book
– Power Networking 101
– Power Networking 201
– Energy “leeches” and unhappy people
– The Power of House Parties
– “scene stealing”
Attracting quality people
– Intro to passion
– Being a leader’s leader
– Brutal Honesty
– chivalry, knight in shining armor
– multi-dating
– general body language
– “the walk”
– reading body language
– time distortion techniques
The Art of Closing (Sex)
– unless its her idea, it’s gonna suck
– LMR techniques
– rape acqusation prevention
Wrapping it up – Conclusion
Extras one – 50 First Date Ideas
Extras two – Dealing with rejection
Extras three – Life has no “edit” button
With much more to come 